I felt like writing today so I thought “heck, why not start a blog of my own again too.” (I have a blog with friends as well.) So I do. My first post goes up and not 5 minutes later some 40 year old man comments and asks me to post some pictures of…well, some not so nice pics. Thank goodness I have the rights to delete it. How come there are creeps out there that has to ruin everyone else’s fun? Since I am not use to such talk or that type of reference to my body it just made my little heart sink. Talk like that just demoralizes and makes you feel cheap and yucky. Why would you want to put yourself or others in that frame of mind? It’s not a place I would want to dwell in and call home. Whoever started the whole fascination of turning the female body (or male) into an object should be shot. Now I’m not sure if I should delete the new blog all together or just wait and pray he doesn’t come back…

I say "wait" and see - unless of course the blog has information in he can use to find you - otherwise maybe he'll take the hint and leave you alone - also there are ways for you to get a poster ISP and report them if you want to.

Or you can post a picture of a animal or something - just to mess with him :)

Ha, good idea. :eyes: Thanks!!

I felt like writing today so I thought “heck, why not start a blog of my own again too.” (I have a blog with friends as well.) So I do. My first post goes up and not 5 minutes later some 40 year old man comments and asks me to post some pictures of…well, some not so nice pics. Thank goodness I have the rights to delete it. How come there are creeps out there that has to ruin everyone else’s fun? Since I am not use to such talk or that type of reference to my body it just made my little heart sink. Talk like that just demoralizes and makes you feel cheap and yucky. Why would you want to put yourself or others in that frame of mind? It’s not a place I would want to dwell in and call home. Whoever started the whole fascination of turning the female body (or male) into an object should be shot. Now I’m not sure if I should delete the new blog all together or just wait and pray he doesn’t come back…
(sounds more like a 'guest book' than a blog) Well, chances are, the URL is one of his browser "favorites", so you might give some thought to switching "handles" (surely you're not putting any identifiable info on the web like your address).

Who runs the blog service? Maybe they'd block such a character's IP (not ISP) address for you if they agreed that he was out of line (or, maybe that's a feature you're unaware of that you could do yourself). If they did not agree that he's out of line, sounds like it's time to consider another blog site (there are surely plenty of them out there).

For that matter, you could start a Journal topic here, and pretend that's your blog.

rD

Thanks!! I'll try it out.