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slim
01-13-01, 07:08 PM
Even though Rusty disappeared into his house and had hardly stirred for more than 48 hours; even though he had not eaten for several days, was in pain, and was in fact dying; he seemed to know that something was up and that the last of his strength would be needed to help complete this task. He came out of his house and stood, waiting for us to do what we would do. He took a small sip of water offered before beginning this last, difficult journey. Using a piece of canvas under his body, Mom, Dad and I lifted Rusty into the back of my small Suzuki Sidekick that I had lined with blankets. It was as though he was trying to help us in every way he could. Rusty, barely three years old, was such a good dog. He remained standing for most of the 30-minute drive to our destination, leaning into the back of the seat with his head against the glass for support. We pulled into the back entrance of the animal hospital. They were expecting us. Patches of ice covered the pavement where we parked. It was freezing cold and the sky was clear and a brilliant blue. It was Tuesday, January 9, 2001. Dr. Redwine and Daddy had to be very careful as they carried Rusty into the building. The doctor examined Rusty and said, “he’s in much worse condition than Friday,” three days before. “You’re not doing too well, are you fellow.” Rusty answered with the feeble wagging of his tail.
“Sweet Rusty, I’m so sorry I can’t make it all better.”
Dr. Redwine carried Rusty to a private room and closed the door behind us. Mom and Dad said their goodbyes to Rusty earlier, but I had chosen to be with him to the end of the road. Dr. Redwine explained to me that the injection Rusty would be given is humane and would work very quickly, taking only 10 to 15 seconds once the fluid entered the blood stream. Rusty lay on the table trusting that he was in good hands and that we would do what needed to be done. The doctor had some trouble getting the needle into Rusty’s tired vein, and after several attempts, his assistant brought an electric razor over to the examining table. Dr. Redwine then shaved a little strip of Rusty’s forearm clean of hair so he could see to better place the needle. Rusty never flinched as the needle attempted to find its mark, but he immediately raised his head in response to the whirr of the electric razor. Dr. Redwine quickly eased Rusty’s concern and reassured him that it would be okay. He was compassionate and comforting to Rusty and treated him with respect. Rusty laid his head back down as if with a solemn resolve that this must be done. “Now we can proceed I think. Are you ready?” Dr. Redwine gently asked. I wanted to say no, NO--but I had to say yes. The time had come. The needle found its mark and the pink fluid was slowly pushed into Rusty’s vein. I held on to Rusty and through my tears told him I loved him and I told him what a sweet baby he is--over and over. Seconds later I felt his body go limp. I still held on. Moments later, a gasp of air escaped from Rusty’s mouth. The doctor assured me this was just the body shutting down. It was over. I felt heaviness--a sadness that wouldn’t go away, and it’s still with me now. Dr. Redwine asked if I would like to have Rusty’s collar. I accepted the old worn collar and held it tightly. I later washed the collar, but almost wished I hadn’t. The washing removed his scent and evidence of his existence. As I cleaned out the backend of my Suzuki, it seemed that I was removing all that remained of Rusty. I placed the freshly cleaned collar in a place where I can see it every day, touch it and remember the beautiful golden retriever puppy I’d given to Mom and Dad on their Golden Wedding Anniversary just three years before, almost to the day.
I want to know that Rusty IS somewhere and that he’s okay now. I need to know that I’ll see him again someday. I want to believe in the Rainbow Bridge.
“I’ll see ya later litl’ golden boy—goodbye Rusty.”

A Tribute to Rusty by Linda Lee

Massielita
01-13-01, 07:24 PM
Oh Linda!! You made me cry! How sweet of you to write a tribute to Rusty, he must have been a gread doggie! I feel so sad for your loss! http://www.diettalk.com/uub//frown.gif

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Dj
01-13-01, 07:26 PM
Rusty must be with our old girl "Finder" that went through the same thing just a year ago. I was with her at the end, too, and was glad to be able to comfort her and hold her in her last minutes. Your tribute brought tears to my eyes remembering...... It will get easier, but you never stop missing them.... take care and know you did the kindest thing for Rusty.

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ny heather
01-13-01, 08:00 PM
Oh my goodness.. I am so sorry for the loss of your puppy. I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face..wondering how you ever had the courage to sit through his passing. I am sure I would want to be there with my dog as well..but oh gosh, the strength you need. Thank you so much for sharing this with us.

heather ww

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Neek
01-13-01, 08:05 PM
I'm sitting here with tears streaming down my face. What a compassionate piece of writing and a lasting tribute of your love for a special dog. I found it extremely touching being that I also have a dog named Rusty. There is something about the relationships people have with their dogs that people without them don't always understand. They are truly a part of your family. My Rusty is almost 4 years old. God willing, I hope he is with us for many years. Thank you for sharing such a touching personal memory.

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discomama
01-13-01, 08:17 PM
Oh, baby, I'm so sorry. I'm typing this through tears, too. Rusty sounds like he was a special friend to you all. How wonderful of you to stay with him until he left. Blessings to you all, until you meet again.

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ThinLynn
01-14-01, 11:23 AM
What a beautiful tribute to your dear pet.

I can't swallow past the lump in my throat. My dear and beautiful 13-year-old Springer Spaniel, Max, made that final journey to his vet last year and departed this earth as I held him in my arms. Framed photos of Max remind me of the glorious times we had together.

But those pictures were little consolation in the days immediately following his death, and my heart aches for you in your time of grief.

Your Rusty knew with the last breath he drew that you loved him.

Thank you for sharing this with us.

With sincere sympathy,
ThinLynn

P.S. I always knew it would take three dogs to replace my Max. Molly, Mikey, and Daisy now share our lives and bring me joy each day.

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Jade
01-14-01, 11:46 AM
Oh how sad http://www.diettalk.com/uub//frown.gif
I am so sorry for your loss slim.
I have lost pets and they each still remain with me in my memories.
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anu
01-14-01, 11:50 AM
I am sorry for your loss Linda http://www.diettalk.com/uub//frown.gif.

I can still remember our beloved beagle that we had over 10 years ago and how much I loved him and missed him. But you just have to think that your beloved puppy is now in a better place.

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baby
01-14-01, 02:56 PM
Oh sweetie, I am so sorry about your loss.
I am sitting here sobbing as I type this, if my hubby came downstairs now I don't know what he would think.
It brought back to me the loss of my little dog Scamp 7 years ago or so. I didn't have the strength to stay with her right to the end, I wish I had, and to this very day I feel like I let her down. You were so strong.
I did get over it, but when I read things like this or hear about bad things happening to animals it all comes rushing back.
I have been feeling very tearful all week for lots of reasons I think, and reading your post has made me face up to my emotions again for the first time in a while.
I think that is something I need to work on, feeling the emotions rather than drowning them with food, and then working through them and out the other end hopefully.
My thoughts are with you.

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Neek
01-14-01, 03:01 PM
I shared your piece with my husband who also cried. You've struck a nerve in many dog lovers. We both were crying and hugging our dog. Our dog Rusty enjoyed the extra attn. but was wondering why all the sudden! =)

Thanks again for sharing such a sad moment. It made us thankful Rusty is still with us!

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slim
01-14-01, 04:20 PM
I feel so close to all of you right now. I'm so thankful for you! You know how it is on human visitation during a human death. Your standing there and people line up and come throught and give you a hug and cry with you and share words from their heart with you, and it all becomes part of the natural order of the grief process. We are usually denied that following the death of a beloved pet, but you guys were my line of friends who gave me a hug and a piece of your heart. Thank you! Also, I thank this board for knowing that "eating" is a very broad issue that encompasses celebration, sadness, depression, and every other thing that composes life and the effects those things have on us and on our eating. In the past few days, I have not eaten due to feeling sad and I have eaten more than I should to compensate for feeling a loss. Mostly, I just want to say "I love you guys!"

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